Category: Forever Together

Cute Fight between Husband & Wife

Beautiful Fight between Husband & Wife!

A man and his wife had a serious dispute and they refused to talk to each other all day. In the evening while they were both sitting in the parlour, the man was working on his Laptop while the woman was watching a documentary on TV, then she sneezed:

Her: Alhamdulilah
Him: …. hmm YarhamukiLlah
Her: YahdeekumuLlahu wa yuslihu baalaqum
Him: I guess we are….
Her: (cuts in) I am not still talking to you !!!
.
20 minutes later, she sneezed again:
Her: Alhamdulilah
Him: …..
Her: is that the Sunnah?
Him: …
Her: I said Alhamdulilah and you refuse to supplicate for me?
Him: Just beg me to talk to you, I know you are dying to hear my voice, women and ego. Yuck. Well YarhamukiLlah
Her: what guts. Who is missing your voice?
Him: really? Is that so?
Her: did you see my purse, I have been looking for it. Need to do some online transactions and my Tab is in it.
Him: (Singing a nasheed)
Her: Don’t give me that face. Where is my purse?
Him: Am not still talking to you.
Her: Gosh, forget about the quarrel OK. Give me my purse like seriously
Him: beg me first before I talk to you
Her: OK am sorry. So talk
Him: tell me you love me 7 times.
Her: oh my, I have at least initiated this discussion. So talk to me.
Him: You are disturbing me please. Simply do my bidding. Tell me you love me 7 times.
Her: for real? Can’t believe I have to do this. OK
I love you
I love you
I love you
I love you
I love you
I love you
I love you.
Him: That was too damn fast, I couldn’t hear some of them. Start again.
Her: what a hell….
Him: Oh are you complaining?
Her: No, sorry. OK
I love you
I love you
I love you
I love you
Him: (cuts in). You look angry, you aren’t saying it with a smile on your face. So smile and start again.
Her: (starts tickle and pinch him)
Him: (laughing hysterically)
Well I kept your purse under your pillow.
Her: I am not still talking to you.!!!

#Fiction
The Sunnah is so beautiful that it makes spouses have no option than to supplicate for each other even when they are quarreling. If there was mutual play, fun and drama between spouses, it would go a long way in helping them to heal during mutual disputes.

May our homes be rectified. Ameen

Oppressing your Wife

Shame upon those men who oppress their wives.

Giving preference to your friends over your wife is oppression.

Screaming and yelling at your wife is oppression.

Coming home late each night or coming to bed late each night without a valid excuse is oppression.

Wasting time on the internet or phone, television or games whilst your wife is waiting for you is oppression.

Not spending reasonable time with your wife is oppression.

Not commending her upon her goodness, sacrifice and achievements whilst only harping on her weaknesses is oppression. Be fair!

Not correcting her in the most loving manner and going around publicizing her errors or wrongdoings is oppression.

Not providing at least the basic food, clothing and shelter for her is oppression.

Not appreciating that she is someone’s daughter or sister and treating her like a slave is oppression.

Allowing your mother or family members to disrespect or maltreat your wife is oppression.

Allowing others to invade her privacy is oppression.

Not giving her the rest that she deserves post child birth is oppression.

Swearing and cursing your wife is oppression.

Making false promises to your wife is oppression.

These are just some ways that men oppress their wives.

Shame upon those men who oppress their wives!
Are you one of them? Well, change your ways, apologize and repent before the Almighty overtakes you with His Wrath.

Remember the Messenger pbuh says, “The best of you are those best to their wives.”

— Mufti Ismail Menk

Tips to win your Wife’s Heart

If your wife is still asleep when you have woken up, give her a gentle kiss on the forehead.

Watch your wife’s beauty secretly. Whenever you have the opportunity, offer her a flower or a bouquet of flowers with a smile.

Rather than trying to satisfy her too much, feel and say that You are satisfied with her. Your own satisfaction will satisfy her.

Tell her “I love you.” Send her SMS saying, “I miss you, I love you.” If she says that she doesn’t believe you, tell her, “You have the right to disbelieve me, but I love you.”

On coming back home every time, give her a hug and a kiss on the forehead.

Tell her that she looked really nice when she was asleep last night.

Really feel that she was made for you – so you’re not only happy, but satisfied too; you’re not only satisfied, but proud too.

Feel that you have never seen anybody like her and let her know it.

Tell her, “I love you so much that I don’t want to see anybody else love you. Somebody who loves you more than I do simply doesn’t exist.”

Don’t look for her body. That’s already yours. Rather look for her mind. She’s looking for opportunities to offer it to you.

When she acts like a child simply enjoy the beauty of her frivolity.

Look her into the eyes and smile.

Respect her mother and father. And tell her to do so even if she doesn’t sometimes like them very much.

When you feel deep love for her ask her, “Have you cast spell on me? How can I remove you from my mind? I’ve tried but failed.” Saying that will make your love more real.

When you have the time play games with her. If you lose, ask her for a kiss. If you win, act like a child.

May Allah SWT bless us all with a happy and everlasting marriage. Ameen

7 Important Things

7 Important Things To Have And Give In Your Marriage.

1) Love: The special feeling that makes you feel all warm and wonderful.

2) Respect: Treating your spouse as you would like to be treated.

3) Appreciation: To be grateful for all the good things your spouse does for you.

4) Happiness: The full enjoyment of each moment spent together with a smiling face.

5) Forgiveness: The ability to let things be without anger.

6) Sharing: The joy of giving without thoughts of receiving.

7) Honesty: The quality of always telling the truth.

May Allah SWT bless all our marriages. Ameen

Exit mobile version